I need your advice. I almost broke up with my boyfriend today. Almost. What should I do? I don't want to make another same mistake 'cause I'm afraid of losing him.

First of all, you got the wrong person 'cause myself, my own relationship like a year ago, was blarghhh!!! I will try my best to help you, okay? :)

How long have you been with your boyfriend? And define almost. "I don't want to make another same mistake 'cause I'm afraid of losing him." - same mistake? define that. :)

Fighting over the same mistake, sarcasm, bitching, dissing happened. Talk with your partner because with talk, everything is fixable. But if you both really love each other, its always worth the fight :) And if you're trying to survive the relationship, don't "ohh, he doesn't care about me, why should I. I won't text him for 3 days" bla bla bla! Put aside your egos 'cause being egoistic will lose the person you love! Trust me.

My key to relationship:
1. communication
2. compromise
3. trust
4. intimacy

Another best way is to use the silent treatment. Very useful. :) And don't lost respect each other. From what I saw, typical Bruneian couples, use the word like "baie" to each other when they fight. Imagine 10 years later, your husband use the word "baie" whenever you guys fight. I never experience any of those, but thats hurt you know.

So now, talk with your partner and try to avoid the same mistake. Everything is fixable when you talk with them. Don't cheat. :))

ps: intimacy is not always about sex. be romantic and show some respect.

pss: good luck!

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